Dead Weight

Well it’s been a few weeks since I’ve published a blog post, but that’s actually a good thing. The past month or so has been completely eye-opening for so many reasons. I’ve learned how to be me again. I feel that I’ve somehow become the best version of myself, though I’m not entirely sure howContinue reading “Dead Weight”

Thank You

Dear Narc Husband, There’s so much to say, and so little time (basically because I’m moving on and don’t care to spend too much energy on you these days). Thank you. Over the course of the past year, you’ve taught me lessons that I didn’t even know I needed to learn. Why would I, asContinue reading “Thank You”

Candy Crush: Level 551

That is not a typo. As of today, I can (not so proudly) say that I’ve reached Level 551 on the most pointless yet entertaining app I’ve downloaded on my phone. *smiles awkwardly* I started playing after he left. That was five months ago now. Candy Crush was my pacifier (at least on the daysContinue reading “Candy Crush: Level 551”


I married a raging narcissist without realizing at the time. It’s pretty cringeworthy and I should start apologizing to myself for not seeing the very obvious signs in the little moments throughout the years that tuned out to be big red flags. I want to go back in time and give myself a hug. ApparentlyContinue reading “Narc”

Women Appreciation

I am writing this post with love and empowerment pouring out of my fingertips. READ THIS NEXT PART TWICE: The people who you choose to surround yourself with after your D-Day is instrumental in your recovery. I am blown away by the support I’ve been receiving by family, friends, colleagues and friendly internet strangers whoContinue reading “Women Appreciation”

They Might Be A Cheater If…

I had a shower thought today about all the red flags my soon-to-be-exhusband presented over the years that, looking back, I can see were obvious signs of cheating. Le Sigh. So for all of you fine people who aren’t sure if your partner is being a sketchball or just need a clue, read my listContinue reading “They Might Be A Cheater If…”

My Face is a Bloody Mess Part II

So I put myself through the torture again of getting microneedled. I’ve noticed the results and can’t deny that it makes me feel good when people compliment my skin, so I guess this is my way of practicing self care of the time being. “Kim Kardashian does this every three months,” my dermatologist reminded meContinue reading “My Face is a Bloody Mess Part II”

Cloudy with a High Chance of Deception

I write this entry today feeling misplaced, forgotten, discarded, but ultimately, deceived. Thinking about what my life will be like moving forward is incredibly overwhelming and it finally brought me to tears after pushing away such intrusive thoughts for the past few days. And I was doing so well. #justmyluck The only way that IContinue reading “Cloudy with a High Chance of Deception”

Divorce, You Confusing Asshole

“Going through the motions” really takes on its own meaning when the big D is thrown into the mix. First, you have to sustain all the bullshit thrown your way BEFORE divorce is even discussed. You know, the gas lighting, passive aggressive (or full blow aggressive) bullshit, the tears, the feelings of loneliness and constantlyContinue reading “Divorce, You Confusing Asshole”